Quote Originally Posted by restrainedNtrained View Post
Thank you for your comment Oz, let me explain myself a little bit better. I never said anything was wrong with friends on the internet or real life. If it turns sexual then its cheating in my book. Having sexual desires for another or even sexual thoughts about another is a form of cheating for me. Would you want me (if you were your partner) having sexual desires for another man or woman? When we were fucking each other, i was thinking of fucking them, or a role play i had with them and my mind wasnt on you at all? Would you want that? I dont think you would, so why would i want that done to me? Im sorry if you feel i am being a bit over dramatic and i am sorry if you are one of the people i was talking abotu in my post. What you do in your own free time is your own bussniess, hell what you do with YOU is your bussiness. I am FRIENDS with the people that are married, and are lying to there wives or husbands, i never said 'oh they are a bad breed' just think its wrong, i hold nothing against them.

Im sorry if i offened you.
I don't think I quoted you in a way that indicated I was offended.

But the next question is... what if the spouse considers this online, platonic friendship, a violation of trust. It happens all the time. Have you therefore cheated?

This is basically the same point I discussed with arria... because not everyone considers sex (online or not) to be the deal breaker. I have acquaintances who get 4 hours a year to be away for their spouse, and have to beg for that. I can well imagine him being online "cheating" her out of her precious "me time" and none of it sexual.

Regardless, I don't deny that everyone is entitled to their opinions... I just object (not that you did this) to those who insist on directly insulting a number of my friends here on the forums because they hold a different opinion... and do so in such a way that if they come out to defend themselves, they'll obviously be the victims of some vile epithets.