Quote Originally Posted by delia View Post
... your actions will always affect others.

Exactly right.


Quote Originally Posted by SnickerKitten View Post
... if you have to hide something you are doing from your partner then you're hiding it NOT because the partner is wrong for their view of it, but because YOU know they'll be upset if they know you are doing it.

Again, exactly so.


So, you either don't do it, or you don't get caught (but there's always a risk that you will).


Quote Originally Posted by SnickerKitten View Post
It also makes the person doing the sneaking total scum.

Ummmm ... Fair comment, I suppose