To me i do not see why the other party should be to blame at all. After all if a married man/woman is coming on line to find a person to have some fun with wither it be sexual or just someone to talk too. Then there must be an issue some where within the relationship they hold off line that is causing the person to search else where for release. So the ingured party should think twice and look at themselves to see if there is a reason why their significant other went to a stranger instead. While I am just new to the whole submissive Dominate relationship I know my Master would be terribly upset if I went searching else where and I have no reason too. But before this I was one of the few who have had a similar thing happen and the wife was so upset and so defiant that her husband would never cheat on her but she had no idea that i was not the only woman he was having an affair with both on here and off. So is it cheating purhaps depends on who you ask i guess. I know I would hate for the person I was with to search else where for release. But if he was on line and got excited but used me to release the energy then purhaps I wouldnt consider it cheating but if he was to cum for someone else then yes I think I would be upset about it but I would also wounder why he needed to do that instead of using me for the same outcome. Was there something wrong between us that I no longer satisfied his cravings? Was the other woman prettier? Would be some of the questions going through my mind.