Quote Originally Posted by Flaming_Redhead View Post
The submissive males you're referring to may not actually be submissive at all. They're typically fetish bottoms, and they do tend to objectify dominatrices. They're really not so much interested in the lady as in what she's wearing and whether or not she'll do what they want her to. It's turned me off from topping a bit since it's just another way to be used instead of actually being the one doing the using....*shrugs*
That makes sense. A good way to explain the problem.