Quote Originally Posted by subj View Post
I'm new to this lifestyle or scene? So I apologize if this doesn't come out right. I have noticed in my few couple of days online that some straight male submissive's have this notion that a dominatrix is suppose to be a model or always dolled up.
What put my late wife off being a Domme was the number of malesubs who assumed that "domination" meant she would play whatever script they came with, regardless of what she wanted to do.

Her charitable explanation was that they were used to pro-Dommes, who presumably make some effort to follow the client's script because he's paying.