welcome to the community. and yes i think there is that misperception of what people want. it's possible thats it is kinda ingrained from parents and school that the people our friends and family would want their boy to be with the prom queen and that the girls are told that their handsome prince is somewhere out there. we all have that imbedded somewhere that were supposed to aim for the most beautific or most wealthy to make us happy, and in reality it's the people that aren't those that are the perfect matches for us. it's a possible explanation and may not be the right one. but at the moment it's the one i can come up with.