Encouraging Him

[seriouslynosn]

Actually, Tom and the others have an excellant point here. I have learned that the opposite is just as true, people can be submissive in everything outside of the bedroom and totally take control there.

There are things I have learned to look for in a sub, but I have never really had any success in making a sub out of a submissive person. The choice has to come from inside each person, and all we can do is take what they can give.

I'm getting off subject a bit, but I am not a submissive person to just anyone. There are a few people I have felt that way towards, but my closest friends normally call me things like "confident", "outspoken", "opinionated", etc. The ones that I submit to are usually the ones that make me want to....know what I mean? So, my submissiveness to him is because of him and his personality. It's strange because he just thinks that's the person I am and I know he thinks I have low self-esteem because of my wish to put him first...but we all know that isn't true.

Unfortunately, I have misjudged the level of submission I am comfortable with. I thought just being with a dominant type personality would be enough...but it isn't. I just have to be brave and tell him.