Encouraging Him

[gloombunny]

Actually I don't think that this is necessarily true. I have tried a similar method on my b/f and it worked surprisingly well. He has some Dom tendencies and whether or not he will fully utalize them is his decision. We have had a non-existent sex life until I finally had to communicate to him about how I feel and what I want, and push the issue a little bit. You won't know if you don't at least try.

Oh, certainly. I just got the impression that seriouslynosn had already tried a number of things, and that I was responding to a suggestion to try pushing even harder, which doesn't seem like a good plan to me.

[seriouslynosn]

Oh, certainly. I just got the impression that seriouslynosn had already tried a number of things, and that I was responding to a suggestion to try pushing even harder, which doesn't seem like a good plan to me.

You are right, although I haven't exactly told him how important it is to me. I just suggested "something fun" to try....and he wouldn't go for it. A long time ago I told him a little and he sounded interested. That's the only reason I thought we would be ok...but I think he was just trying to impress me at that time.