Encouraging Him

[seriouslynosn]

I think you are basically faced with three scenarios;

1. He finds out you are right about him, and that he is a Dominant.
2. Accept that you are wrong about this man and try to live with him.
3. Find another man.

This is an oversimplification, as even if he is a Dom and is willing to admit it, he may not be able to overcome the cultural conditioning.

Yes, I believe you are correct. I wonder which one I have courage for. I know the best choice is #3, although #1 would be wonderful!