i've given this a lot of thought and have no idea if online D/s actually works. i see it happen all around me so i hold out hope!
i'm 48, super cute, obedient and have about 5 years of real life experience. i've been single for about a year and miss having someone to be accountable to.
in real life, i'm more of a masochistic sub and have been told i have a slave heart... in real life, i like impact play, pain, bondage.
online, i seek someone a little more tender, more gentle in the sense that i don't really want to smack my own ass. i'd like to explore the Daddy / little girl dynamic. i would like you to be strict, though and even a little sadistic.
i honestly don't know what to expect from online. i expect that we're both busy in our "real" (non-online) lives and that we can't spend hours online each day. if you do want someone to be online with you for 3-4 hours at a time, i can't give you that. maybe sometimes! i would like daily contact, clear and consistent communciation and some genuine affection!
as to what i "want" - or need from you... i'm not quite sure i want you to tell me what to wear every single day but i would like to create a relationship that satifies your need to control and my need to give up that control. whether it's in the sexual realm (orgasm control, lactation, anal training) or time management, health issues... i have no concrete ideas at this time.
i realize this is pretty random. if you have questions, let me know. thanks!