I was told by a certain moderator that I had to come say hello. So hi! I'm desire. I'm new to this site but not BDSM. I was active in the lifestyle, living a Dom/sub relationship for a few years. I am now married to a vanilla guy. He knows my interest but...not enough to participate. I'm 36 and live in Ontario. Two dogs, two kids, one husband. I'm sassy, bratty, and extrememly shy (and I know that "certain moderator" is going to comment on that). I'm not interested in meeting anyone offline, so please don't ask. I'm looking for friendship, and a way to stay in the lifestyle even though I can't participate r/l. (Although I did put "obey" in my wedding vows, that certainly raised a few eyebrows). Thank you to everyone I met in chat today, it was very nice to be so welcomed. It has been a long time since I have been able to find a good site, thanks annie!
~B