Sefl worth and submission

[Ownedfyre (mm1)]

I am not sure where the higher class issue came in but I did not mean that at all in my post. I don't believe I said anything about 'class' but maybe it was someone else.

I personally would only and DO only submit to a Master who can match or exceed my own intelligence in every way. He is always one step ahead of me and that in itself is VERY rare for me. lol Very few of the true submissives/slaves I have met here would be considered less than VERY intelligent. I know many women of 'breeding' who are complete fools, regardless of their pedigree. All the degrees in the world won't help when a person can't even spell the word "you're" in the correct context.

My question is, would you not become exceedingly bored with a submissive with whom you could not have real conversations? Is she not more or less your companion as well? You live together, are intimate with each other, there has to be SOME speaking at some point, right?? As for "not being able to take out in public" I can only assume that is because she would be considered too dumb or too trashy. But as her Master, is it not your duty to ensure her education in all things, including how to properly handle herself in social situations and proper etiquette when dealing with other people outside the home?

My personal experience as a submissive has been that learning is key to our service. If you (a submissive/slave) start out dumb and you are kept dumb, how will you ever improve your service or yourself? This lifestyle requires constant learning and adapting to changing needs both physical and emotional. Strength of character as well as mind are necessary for any submissive to truly embrace her service to her Master. There are so many details to remember and so many responsibilities. I can't imagine how anyone who is considered 'dumb' could possibly be a true submissive, male or female.

If you are simply looking for a housemaid who will have sex, there are plenty on craigslist. But if you are looking for a submissive who can serve with pride and honor you as a Master, then perhaps something with a little more depth might be in order.

I mean no disrespect to anyone's position or views with this post and I am not addressing anyone specifically, but rather speaking generally and sharing my thoughts in response to the posts in this thread.

~Master's muse~

[hellman]

I can't imagine how anyone who is considered 'dumb' could possibly be a true submissive, male or female.

i have sent a long time reading all the posts here and 99% of it is good but this one line just got my back up but did not up in till i read the rest to see if any one els was upsit with it as i keep hear you be your self and no one will be judging you. but reading the post no one care as long your not dumb i my not be right but that is judging at is wost i'm not top of the class maybe just off the bottom and no that is not putting my self down it is true but i'm sill a sub and i love it dont for get with out people at the bottom there is no top and just cose so calld "dumb" people can not chat about what your like you can not chat to them about what they like and to get back to what i saying what give you the right say "dumb" can not be sub and sorry for the spelling and hope you get what i mean

[Ownedfyre (mm1)]

I just saw this. hellman, I believe you misunderstood me. I was actually complimenting all of the wonderful and intelligent subs I have met since I began this journey. It takes intelligence, confidence and self worth to be a sub/slave. All of those qualities are possessed ten times over by the subs I have met in here.

So please don't take offense. It was not intended to offend, but to compliment!