denuseri,

Point well taken. Being new to this lifestyle I'm trying to discover the balance and boundaries both with my sub and through the collective experience of this community. I made the e-mail command because my sub expressly voiced the desire to be controlled in that fashion and had volunteered passwords to on-line websites already. I felt it was in line with existing expectations. The photo I requested was again in line with previous submissions, and would have been of her outfit only. But I sincerely respect and appreciate your perspective. My sub means the world to me. I would never want to exceed defined and reasonable boundaries with her. My sub and I had a very good conversation tonight (not a chat or email exchange but an actual conversation) where we cleared alot of this up and have agreed to reset if you will.