Does it bother anyone to be told "good girl"?

[DontBother]

Context is king.

The words dont really matter it's who says them and what they mean that is the most importart - for everyone.

[Akari]

I personally love being told "good girl," though I've only ever been called that by people I'm fairly attached to. I strive to please people, and I rarely get accomplishes acknowledged in my vanilla life, so it makes me feel special when I get called a "good girl." It's also reassuring to me if I'm doing something not particularly pleasant, and encourages me to push onwards.

[chipmunk_]

As a 40 year old professional, I thought being called a "good girl" would bother me. However, I find it pleasurable, and even thrilling. I've only been called a good girl by one person, though, and I imagine that could make a big difference.

[shishagal]

my Masters always calling me a "good girl" (im in training to be a sub) when i get things right lol. i find it funny its been a long time since i was a girl(almost 47 now) but i have to admit i get a buzz out of it

[understudy]

I totally agree with pandora's it all boils down to context and the intent of the person saying it.

[kage]

Before I started actually exploring all of this being told "good girl" would have ticked me off to no end but when Sir says it I love it. But only when it comes from Sir, if someone were to say that to me in an everyday situation I'd still probably get a bit ticked off. And I think even if I hated it but Sir meant it as a reward then I'd do my best to accept it and learn to like it at the very least although I would make sure to tell Sir that it was slightly uncomfortable to hear.

[~little~miss~spitfire~]

for me this is the phrase that does the most to my consciousness and subconscious at the same time. It is the highest praise, the only praise, that I need. For me, it is the greatest reward I can earn...and if I can elicit this from my Master, then it is all the satisfaction that I need.

[sweetiepie]

It is personally one of my favourite phrases.

[littlepony1]

i would get a flush of irritation if it was from anyone else..i like it very much to hear from my master when im doing something right for him

[subserviant]

I hate being called *good girl* makes me feel like im a dog. Only thing worse is to be called *little one*

[swallowz]

I love to be told good girl. I need to know that what I do is pleasing. Even in a text message, "good girl" will get a smile out of me.

[Purple23]

my Sir will often call me good girl. One day i told him it made me feel like a dog.. He continued to call me it after a little discussion and now, although it still feels like He is calling me a dog sometimes, it means i am doing something right and pleasing Him. It just depends on the situation i guess.

[Zarine13]

My feelings have changed as this seems to be a common term of endearment for a lot of people. If I hear 9 people called baby and one called sweetie, I would prefer sweetie. I hear a LOT of Tops/Dom(me)s say 'good girl' to their partners. I'll accept it from a play partner or someone I'm having fun with, but if it looks like it's actually going somewhere I'll let them know I would much rather prefer a smile or a touch or something else other than 'good girl' if I have pleased.

[puppet]

I love it when Mistress calls me a good boy. She was heading out the door today and told me I was a good boy and I started dripping precum almost instantly

[wolfs_grace]

I like to be called a "good girl". The are other words far more demeaning. I am a good, it means, I please my Master.

[summerBreeze{EDQ}]

good girl doesnt worry me but I hate being called little one so much my Dom doesnt use that term but many others do and I hate it.

[katydidnt1]

Nothing makes me melt faster...

[Diversified]

I love hearing "good girl", it brings a sense of fulfillment knowing I have done well and please how it was wanted. I HATE "little girl", it is so condescending and I feel childish just having to hear it. I recently voiced this to my dom and of course he uses it to push my buttons ... and this makes me rebel ... only a little though.

[scarlet_85]

I personally strive to hear "good girl" from my Master. By him saying that, I know I'm playing my role to his expectations. In the vanilla world, being told that makes me feel like I'm 2 or something. I think if it bothers you, communicate to your Master and hopefully you guys can find a happy medium. Maybe have "good girl" be a form of punishment instead of a reward.

[His_blizzard]

I love getting a "good girl" from my Master. I suppose if he said good "little" girl it might be annoying, but at my age being called a girl is just fine with me!

[karley]

Good girl is probably my favorite phrase in the English language

[Jacee]

I love it, although my Sir has a slightly different version of "good girl", it puts a huge smile on my face.

[Whisperz]

hmmm, as much as i would typically bristle at being spoken to or treated like a child....i must confess that "good girl" are two of my favorite words...

Whisperz