to me if i have an emotional tie/bond with someone then to be told 'good girl' is the most rewarding statement i could ever hear and will practically purr like a kitten but on the other side of the coin if it was to be said from someone who i work with or anyone i had no emotional tie/bond with then the same words grate on me like chalk on a board and i have in my time flipped out on a person for being such a patronising prat....

i am a little bit complex though or have duel personalities...lol