I think the most important thing is to remember even though you are the sub in reality you are in charge. You tell them what is ok to do to you and what isn't. What your willing to try and not try. If they are good Masters they will respect that but at the same time they will push you too. Don't forget you are a slave of your own free will and can back out anytime you want. Even with a contract because even leagaly you can't sign your rights away. If the situation is going too fast tell them to slow down, if you're just in shock due to the suddeness of it but are secretly pleased just go with the flow. Remember you may be new at being a sub and need to be trained but it sounds like your Husband is new to being a Dom and it is a training time for him too. Dom's need just as much training as subs in order to do their job correctly. He may just think this is what he's supposed to do. It's a team effort, especialy if you're both new. hoped i helped.