Do Looks Matter for a Master?

[Ozme52]

I personally don't feel that looks matter. To me, it's more of an aura that a guy has, you know? I'm typically attracted to tall males, but M is only about 5 inches taller than my 5'4" self. It really doesn't matter because all he has to do is give me a look and I'm putty in his hands.

Clearly you are conflicted... having said looks don't and looks do matter.



And kidding aside, why wouldn't ones "aura" be part of what we call "looks"?

[brwneydgirl]

why wouldn't ones "aura" be part of what we call "looks"?

I understand what this means...and not in relation to "looks". It's a way of carrying oneself, an attitude, confidence, intelligence (maybe a little arrogance) that draws you in....

But, there *has* to be a physical attraction, there just does....otherwise, maybe you could have a terrific friendship/mutual "like" but any sort of physical fun would be ....difficult.

[Ozme52]

But, there *has* to be a physical attraction, there just does....otherwise, maybe you could have a terrific friendship/mutual "like" but any sort of physical fun would be ....difficult.

I agree. It just need not be the Madison Avenue "norm"... I think that's somehow involved in the arguements against looks mattering.