Quote Originally Posted by Reveler View Post
I want the pain, but I want pleasure too...any toys or techniques or personal experiences you would recommend?
I find that having a plug in first helps twofold: It gets the area ready, and just having something in my ass makes me very, very wet. The more aroused I am, the more relaxed I will be when something of more substance works its way in.

OMG. I never, ever thought that having something in my ass would feel even better than regular old sex. But I crave it now....and I swear I would be more likely to reach orgasm through anal than regular (I say more likely because I've never orgasmed from intercourse of any sort.....I stay tauntingly close to the edge).

But I also find I have to be in the mood. On the occasions where we have been rushed, or my mind just isn't there, it's not nearly as good for me or for M.