Hi there!

Brand new to the site completely but this thread caught my eye...

I have been trying to work a little anal play into my regiment and have found it a little hard to do, maybe you could give me some advice.

When I tried the "throbbing cock" it was one of the most painful experiences ever, and not the fun kind, but when I have tried alone with a toy or something I have found it more doable.

I want the pain, but I want pleasure too...any toys or techniques or personal experiences you would recommend?