Even though Im a dom, I would think soo! It would be hard to give your everything up to someone who you thought was physically unattractive who you thought they looked better with clothes on and werent attracted to them AT ALL, right? But I dont do looks matter as much as in the vanilla world. For me, finding a submissive, a girls submissiveness is such an attractive thing that I would find a girl who was cute and decent looking but not gorgeously hot and was submissive to be way hot than the gorgeous blonde next door, tall, nice legs, big breasts but who was fiesty and dominating. So for me, I dont need a girl to be stunningly beautiful to be attractive in my eyes, I just need them to be submissive and easy on the eyes.