Define hate

[IAN 2411]

Anger is often healthy and relevant. I think hate is probably frozen or festering anger, which may happen when you are extremely angry about something you cannot do anything about.

For most of my life I have not understood hate, but has come to me twice, once when someone I loved was falsely accused of a crime, and it almost ruined his life, secondly when an indifferent health system cost my best friend his life. I could not do anything in either case, and the hatred is still there though I work on letting it go.

I hate the hospital that killed my wife, and it burns my soul every time i pass the place, and as i said in my earlier post, it hurts me more than the doctors that i hate. I repeat, it is soul destroying, and i can never forgive them for thier disregard for the welfare of my wife and her life.

Regards ian 2411

[thir]

I hate the hospital that killed my wife, and it burns my soul every time i pass the place, and as i said in my earlier post, it hurts me more than the doctors that i hate. I repeat, it is soul destroying, and i can never forgive them for thier disregard for the welfare of my wife and her life.

Regards ian 2411

So, maybe something you cannot do anything about - ?

I do not believe that forgivenes is the only way to get past it.

[Saheli]

So, maybe something you cannot do anything about - ?

I do not believe that forgivenes is the only way to get past it.

Sometimes forgiveness helps, sometimes time, sometimes understanding...sometimes nothing. Hate is one of the most difficult emotions to overcome because it is so powerful.