how many subs

[ravenbounduptight]

okay.... well, seeings as it sounds like they don't know about each other then i'm going to say You went about it really wrong, and i'll be almost shocked if they both don't leave You.

Being Honest and building trust is something important (at least to me and most everyone i know in the lifestyle). So You worrying You'll have to pick one over the other means You didn't really think about it completely. How would You feel if Your submissives had other Dom's they didn't tell You about? What if one day they came to You and said, Here's my other Dom and You two have to play nice because i can't pick one over the other. Doubt You (or anyone, unless they are really into getting emotional pain) would enjoy that.

This lifestyle includes many forms and fantasy ideas, that doesn't mean that feelings and human nature still doesnt apply. i am poly. i bottom to 2 people, i submit to one, and i top another. We all know about each other and go out for drinks. So i suggest sitting down and thinking about someone else's feelings instead of Your fantasy.

Btw Firstborn, i doubt the poly was the problem as much as the shady way He seems to have done it.(i say seems, feel free to correct me, not many people tell the whole story and i don't know You) Poly for me has only been a problem the second one of my partners decided to do something shady and behind my back. He got kicked to the curb.

~j~

[TheSeeker]

Btw Firstborn, i doubt the poly was the problem as much as the shady way He seems to have done it.(i say seems, feel free to correct me, not many people tell the whole story and i don't know You) Poly for me has only been a problem the second one of my partners decided to do something shady and behind my back. He got kicked to the curb.

~j~

raven you bight deep, I didn't mean to deceive anyone or collect a harem
I merely exchanged PMs with the 2 ladies, we seemed to enjoy each other's correspndence very much and before I was aware of what was happening I was involved with 2 subs

I was only looking to make friends, not deceive anyone

[Archeon]

raven you bight deep, I didn't mean to deceive anyone or collect a harem
I merely exchanged PMs with the 2 ladies, we seemed to enjoy each other's correspndence very much and before I was aware of what was happening I was involved with 2 subs

I was only looking to make friends, not deceive anyone

The problem you have as a very public person, and wanting to do a lot of correspondence in public (c.f. you other posts) I imagine this post may have been the first thing the 2 subs heard of each other, along with the set tasks...probably not the best way to find out.

Regards,

Arch