Switchs please introduce yourselves here

[WorldTraveller]

I just thought i would take the opportunity of introducing myself.

I want to explore more of my dom side as i think i have my sub side almost taken care of. This means that i am likely to switch to my sub side very easily - so i need to explore my dom side so that i can switch to that easily too - yeap dont know if that makes sense - but heck if it doesnt just ask me and i'll explain - good way to make new friends i reckon

[thewhiterabbit]

I just thought i would take the opportunity of introducing myself.

I want to explore more of my dom side as i think i have my sub side almost taken care of. This means that i am likely to switch to my sub side very easily - so i need to explore my dom side so that i can switch to that easily too - yeap dont know if that makes sense - but heck if it doesnt just ask me and i'll explain - good way to make new friends i reckon

lol. I know what you mean. My dom skills are a bit... rusty at best. I'm still not quite experienced enough with it to be fully comfortable acting as such. (And seeing as how my SO wants his turn I guess I'd better remember quick. Eck. ^^')

[zander8605]

Hi, I'm Zander. So far I've only had online experience, but I'm starting to come out of my shell and checking out some of my local kink groups (I have, to date, gotten a mentor and been to one group meeting/safety orientation).

[justwannafun]

hi i am ian and new to the forum just looking to try some new things

[schadenfreude03]

hi everyone. My name is joe. I'm very new to this lifestyle and have very little expirence. I think of myself more as a Dom, but with the right woman I can we myself as a submissive. I'm kinda just looking for some helpful guidance and comraderie as I try to get involved.

[Fnordstrum]

Greetings... I'm Carl... I don't really have any experience, but I'm definitely interested in most things, both as dom and as sub. (Until I get some decent experience trying things, I'm not really sure what I like most...)

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[DungeonMaster6]

I'm not sure if most people in the forum have figured out that I am a switch. Probably I'd say I'm 75% Dom. Yet there are times when I still( when I first got into BDSM I was strictly a sub), feel submissive urges. The role/play, "Surprise Reversal" gave me a chance to show my submissive side. I know with a nick like I have it probably conjures up dark images of me chaining up women in my dungeon. Let me assure you all, that I have done exactly that many times. Yet, there also have been times when I've been chained up myself by a Domme. In all the years I've been in the scene I have met a lot of switches, some of whom are not obvious about it. Personally, I think it gives us switches the advantage of knowing how something feels, like spankings, whippings or nipple clamps. Just keep this in mind, the biggest sex organ is the brain. It's all a matter of prospective.

[Howler77]

Hello everyone, I've come to these boards for quite awhile now but have just recently began to get more involved. I began my BDSM experiences a few years ago online and was a sub. I had a terrific Mistress and loved our time together. I lost touch with her and could not find anyone like her but was still interested in BDSM. The women I was meeting online were all subs so I found myself switching to a Dom for them and enjoy that greatly and I think my experience as a sub helped me be a better Dom but I think I will always be leaning more towards a submissive.
At the moment I have neither a sub to call my own or a Domme to own me and am looking.

[JamesMDenton]

Hi, I'm a Dom leaning switch and relatively new here, most of my experience is as a Dom, but on some occasions I've enjoyed letting go and subbing. I love being a switch, and wouldn't have it any other way.

- J

[new@thisbut<3it]

hey there,
my profile says i am a switch, and i am. but i prefer to sub more often then i prefer to dom.
im pretty much an amateur, so,im mainly trying to find out what more is out there, and what more my husband and i can do with each other. right now, mostly bondage, whipping, some cutting, etc. like i said, amateur

[new@thisbut<3it]

and sometimes, we even do a sort of powerplay, whoever can get the other to submit first gets to dom that night

[Kissa126]

I'm a switch. I thought I was only sub for five years, but I realized from my last relationship that my dominate personality always seeped into the bdsm play and I loved to be worshipped. So now I am exploring my dominate side a bit, though I am far more comfortable being sobmissive. I realize that I can't be one or the other for too long or I become bored and frustrated.

Kissa126

[Mr_Clock]

So the little notice at the top of my screen keeps "reminding" me that I haven't posted in a while. Just looking for some online fun for the most part, and learning about other people. In the last couple of days I've had some roleplay experiences that depended on one character being a switch. In the one I was a male switch dom to a husband but submissive to the wife and in the other the woman said that she is always submissive to men and dom to women. Which got me wondering how many switches have specific roles depending on gender? Not looking to try and hijack a thread. It's just what brought me here

[naughty_rick]

I a'm naughty_rick, I'm 59 and have been in the lifestyle for 12 plus years. I enjoy spanking a womans butt and feeling her twitching over my lap. I have to admit that the feeling is also great to feel the women put the heat to my ass as well. I have no problem with either role.

[TallT]

Hey Im TallT and im a switch in the Gainesville Florida area, i love being humiliated and used but i love doing the same to others so its tit for tat... any females from my area please message me.

[Chillye]

Heya! I'm Chillye. I'm 19, live in BEAUTIFUL Oregon. You can call me Manda, Em, anything but late to dinner. Anyways, I didn't always used to be a switch, I used to be a sub, but then I had a terrible dom, well, a few of them, actually. It irked me so badly because I KNEW what a sub needed in order to feel completed, so that's when I decided to become a switch. And I've enjoyed being able to play BOTH roles fulfilling-ly (for lack of better words) despite others negativity towards switches. And now I find myself slowly becoming more Dom than anything.

[Nekagiggles]

Hi! I'm a mostly submissive switch. I am subbie and Mistress to my fiance. I look forward to being with Him 24/7 soon, as we live 6,000 miles apart from each other. I'm really glad I found this place, so I can finally talk to people of like mind.

[tigerdom]

Hello. I am fairly new to the lifestyle but I have done some willing to do lots more. I am a switch, more dominant than submissive. I am more willing to be submissive with another female than a male but would be for a male if I could trust him.

[LovesKink]

i think im about due to introduce myself i am a proud switch even though the bdsm community is black and white on the subject i know im a switch because i enjoy sensation play as well as bondage i think i am comfortable being subservient but also can understand what a sub likes depending on who im playing with. this brings me to admitting i am not in the lifestyle but only part take in it with a novice kinkster at times i am still learning what it is all about.

[Elissma]

Hello,

I am Elissma, I enjoy dominating and being dominated. I am lucky to share my life with lobster whom allows me to sometimes play with his sub. ^_^

[thisisme]

Hi all I am a switch too. I especially like role switch during a session when the sub overpowers and takes control, then returns the "favor". I'm more into non consensual (at least as it appears) play than consensual ones. As BDSM is concerned I'm into bondage, suspension, facesitting, slapping/whipping and many others listed in my profile.

[GreyWolf-25]

Hi!
When I first started to explore this side of myself, I thought I was a domme. That was because I always loved the thought of giving pain to my partner. I've recently learned that it's not so much that I want to dominate, but rather, to just inflict pain. I still like to dominate sometimes, but it is not something I feel like I need on a regular basis. I've also learned that I like receiving pain as well, and I've been having a lot of fantasies as a sub lately. I'm not sure what that makes me. A sadomasochist that likes to dominate once in awhile and also thinks it's super hot when someone dominates me? lol

[Licentiouslady]

I guess this is the best place to introduce myself. I've been a Domme for a long time with both male and female subs and slaves. I have subed to a couple of Doms, but have only ever had one Master. I've had lots of experience and am just looking for others to talk to, connect with, and who knows... ;-)

[kinky_mom08]

Hey I'm Jessica I've done some kink sex but nothing like I want yet but my mind does run wild and I know I'm switch I fantasies about total control of a couple but I also dream of a gang bang rape me being the victim

[Amoeba]

Wow, so i never introduced myself 0.0 disgustingly new Poly-switch named Amoeba here Cause i'm always changing... although i can only take one role with each person, i've noticed... while it would be fun to try and top Sir or Master, i know They would only have to pull out the 'Dom Voice' and I'd melt... although poor buck and my kitten could try to top me all they want and i'd never be able to sub to them, only be amused. Sorry, that's a random introduction... am half brain-dead tired... The disgustingly newness comes from the fact that i've only known/been specifically (officially? consciously?) interested in BDSM for about a year and really know nothing beyond what comes with instinct.

I find that it's less 'concentration' to be submissive, but wouldn't give up the beauty of making a subbie 'sing' under my attentions for the entire world. And here's where i shut up and go to bed before i say something even stupider.

[BDSM-Porn adict]

Hello. My name is David and have wanted to get into this lifstyle for about a year now. I had one girlfriend who said she was into this but whenever I wanted to be dominated she would turn me down and everytime I would try to tie her up she would let me but didnt look enthused at all. i have tried a few times to be both sub and dom online and enjoy doing so but I feel i need to ease into more then being told I cant cum for a month or walk around outside for an hor naked.

[Liushka]

Hi all. I'm new to the place (but not to BDSM).

My name is Liushka and I am a switch (obviously!). Yet, I have a very dominant side in me, which means that the only person I ever submitted to (and still gladly do) is my fiancé. Beside my relationship with him, I always love dominating women, when it comes to this aspect of my personality/tastes.

[Pegao]

95% dom.. other than with my current partner.. Deity(orDevil) hes really the only one that ive found worth letting go of control for.. and its been really enjoyable.. tho weve both talked about having a pet to share.. or one of our own. im pretty flexible with either.. mostly i just like not playing by the 'rules'

[oObunnyOo]

Hello A/all -

my name is bunny. i'm a trained handmaiden and pet. my Mistress moved away a few years ago to be with her Husband who i also care for dearly and though W/we try and visit each O/other, i find i miss Her company and guidance. i'm here to learn more and engage in conversations with O/others in the Lifestyle. i've trained a bitch boy which was entertaining and fulfilling for that other side of me.

As i said i'm here to converse and learn so i can't wait to get to know more of Y/you A/all.

[Lady_Vampyra_Bytes]

My name is Lady Vampyra Bytes and from looking around this site and from my past and present experiances I realise I am a switch, to explain more in the past I have been with women and been the dom in the sexual relationship whereas with men in the past I have never trusted them enough to talk of my darker side (as I looked at it) now I have been with my male partner for 10 years and over that time we have experimented in the bedroom not only with a variety of toys and light bondage but dressing up, yet in the last year or so my mind would wander and I would fantaise about being with a woman again, this did cause friction at first because i didn't open up to my OH, yet the moment I did it was like a flood gate was open between us, the last few months our sex life has come on in leaps and bounds and I openly talk with him and he too me of our desires.
I long to be able to be with a woman and he is happy for that to happen, wether he is there or not as long as I am honest with him about meeting her, but on saying that I find trust an issue with meeting over the internet hence I haven't took that step, yet with him I am so sub and love the way he dominates me, we have talked and tried ne things, biting or more so him biting me, deep bites of his teeth sinking into my soft fleshy breasts, leaving his mark upon me and also lower down biting this leads me to orgasms time and again, from both breasts and lower biting, I adore the feeling of his teeth on me.
More so the whole sex between us has just exploded he to likes the dom role and tieing me up and doing things to me turn him on more so, yet except for a few sites that show what we have done we cannot find anything new, there is biting, bondage, toy play is there more we can look at/try together.
Also I long to bring another women in on our play she too would have to be a switch as at times I want them to dominate me and other times I want me and him to dominate her.

Thats a bit about me.