how to spot an arsehole

[DIXIE LASS]

If a dom ever says, "I'm polyamorous, but I don't allow my subs to be", don't just run from the building, but set it on fire as you leave.

I can think of something else I'd like to set fire to when I hear this one. This one has to be the lowest of the low, the MOST unforgivable, beyond the pale, a mortal sin.

DIXIE

[leah06]

I can think of something else I'd like to set fire to when I hear this one. This one has to be the lowest of the low, the MOST unforgivable, beyond the pale, a mortal sin.

DIXIE

Why? Lots of other things in D/s relationships are not equal; why is this a bottom-line requirement? In fact, if you read the polyamory thread, there are quite a few subs who say something like, I belong to Master alone; Master does as He pleases. This wouldn't suit me, but I don't see why it's totally different from a lot of other inequalities in these interactions.