Mending ways?

[sirbootnocka]

You know, I gotta ask some ?????
Like 1. Were you guys in a serious monogamous relationship and both parties knew it was supposed to be monogamous?
2. Were there ever any hints at his being a cheater? ie phone#s in pockets, callers that hang up?
3. And this one is a big one, Missing for hour or days and being vague about his whereabouts?
If the answer to these are yes, you have a player on your hands.
And contrary to popular idioms, you don't have to hate the player or the game, just refuse to play.
You can't lose if you don't play!

[blythe spirit]

You can't lose if you don't play!

And you can't win if you don't take risks.

Tomcat, she clearly states her love for you. She clearly states that this is her problem. And she's clearly asking a heartfelt, I believe, "Should I take another chance?"

She says that she's afraid to let you love her, but I think she might be afraid of loving you. Sheeeeeeeesh, you know what they say about Tomcats. lol

If you're love is strong, love will keep you together. Maybe she just needs time to sort things out. My only advice to you, Tomcat, is to be patient. You're young and the one thing on your side is time.