A Bit of Caution:
As you create a thread like this, please be aware that it will be on the site regardless of the result of your discussions. Many people "vent" through this type of thread on a public forum, only to regret it in a day, week, or month... Sometimes our private business is our private business & needs to stay in private. Other times our private business could really use the assistance & discussion of 3rd parties. The choice is yours to make, but should be made consciously.
In the past, couples have had "couples therapy" type threads & they have worked out well. Other times, they have not worked out so well & end up causing much more damage then assistance...
Again, the choice is yours. Please however do be aware such threads are subject to the same forums guidelines on RESPECT that all other threads are.
Good luck,
delia