Oral Sex and Domination

[IAmCanadian]

I'm curious on thoughts for this one.

What is your take on giving oral as a dominant? Should it be done? Is it a "special occasion" thing for you, simply a "whenever works", or a never?

I'm a dom, I occasionally perform oral, and I think of it as consumption rather than service- using a slave's body to satisfy some insatiable hunger for twat. In that context it jibes perfectly with the atmosphere of service, humiliation and objectification in which I like slave to exist.

That pussy is my property, if I want to, I can eat it like a fresh apple pie that's still window-sill warm. I can jam my tongue inward and upward like I'm prospecting for gold, or turn my head sideways and play it like a harmonica, if the mood suits me. I'm as entitled to do that as I am to just leave it alone and tell her to suck my cock and then go make me a sandwich.

It's all in the tone of the encounter. If I leave her there quaking like a little bitch, then kiss her aggressively to share with her the taste of her own quivering quim, then finally spit in her face and callously leave the room- there's nothing submissive going on on my end.

She's the one spreading her legs and getting devoured. I'm not empowering her by catering to her whims- she's serving her most intimate places up to me like she was a piece of meat. In this capacity she has all the dignity of a roasted pig on a silver platter, ready for consumption, with an apple jammed into its mouth. Which is to say, no dignity at all.

- FS

[WyldWyl]

That pussy is my property, if I want to, I can eat it like a fresh apple pie that's still window-sill warm. I can jam my tongue inward and upward like I'm prospecting for gold, or turn my head sideways and play it like a harmonica, if the mood suits me.

Pure gold.

But, as regards the subbie using a dildo- that can still be a submissive thing. If I, just to take an example, put a strap on around my sub's waist and then wish her to nail me with it, that's not necessarily a case of her domming. She's topping, but it's to my instruction. I'm inviting and allowing her into my body, using hers as an implement of MY pleasure.

Yes, I'm just rationalising because I like to have my arse fucked. What of it?

[IAmCanadian]

But, as regards the subbie using a dildo- that can still be a submissive thing.

You're right of course- I was just using the stigma around that act to fuel a joke. ;D

- FS

[tired.of.vanilla{DJ}]

But, as regards the subbie using a dildo- that can still be a submissive thing. If I, just to take an example, put a strap on around my sub's waist and then wish her to nail me with it, that's not necessarily a case of her domming. She's topping, but it's to my instruction. I'm inviting and allowing her into my body, using hers as an implement of MY pleasure.

Yes, I'm just rationalising because I like to have my arse fucked. What of it?

*giggles* talk about pure gold! lol Love it~

[samm]

But, as regards the subbie using a dildo- that can still be a submissive thing.

It sure is when a Domme lets her male sub wear a strapon and then uses the strapon to climax instead of her subbies equipment. So why couldn't it be a submissive thing?

But to answer the TS, I'd say that giving oral as a dominant is perfectly acceptable for teasing, rewarding or for the Dom(me)s own pleasure as many have already said here.
It doesn't mean that the Dom(me) can't demand his/her sub to give oral to them to get their pleasure out of using their sub.

[LadyAznTiger13]

It sure is when a Domme lets her male sub wear a strapon and then uses the strapon to climax instead of her subbies equipment. So why couldn't it be a submissive thing?

LOL amazing samm.. I'm gonna have to use that idea =p

[fetishdj]

It sure is when a Domme lets her male sub wear a strapon and then uses the strapon to climax instead of her subbies equipment. So why couldn't it be a submissive thing?

Perfectly agree with this. Making a sub use a dildo or a strap on could be the domme saying 'sorry, your pathetic bits are not good enough for me. To get an orgasm I need a big dildo inside me. However, if you are a good boy, I will let you wear that dildo so you are at least involved'. Its a form of degredation and humiliation. There are also humiliating gags which have dildos as part of them that the sub wears while the Mistress straddles his face. Can also be combined with queening/suffocation.

I think any form of stimulation can be a reward or even a punishment. A domme can give a male sub oral sex (very nice) but then stop if he has not performed to his best in some task or other before the climax. Spoiled orgasm is a common technique in femdom.

Also, if you have a male sub bound and helpless, you can tease him any way you like for as long as you like and make him beg for release... of course if the sub is gagged you may not hear him beg so clearly...

[efwb2]

Hi Fatishdj

So true and is there any thing you dont know on this topic, so much info.

thankyou

El

[Misschief]

... I think of it as consumption rather than service- using a slave's body to satisfy some insatiable hunger for twat. In that context it jibes perfectly with the atmosphere of service, humiliation and objectification in which I like slave to exist.

That pussy is my property, if I want to, I can eat it like a fresh apple pie that's still window-sill warm. I can jam my tongue inward and upward like I'm prospecting for gold, or turn my head sideways and play it like a harmonica, if the mood suits me. I'm as entitled to do that as I am to just leave it alone and tell her to suck my cock and then go make me a sandwich.

It's all in the tone of the encounter. If I leave her there quaking like a little bitch, then kiss her aggressively to share with her the taste of her own quivering quim, then finally spit in her face and callously leave the room- there's nothing submissive going on on my end.

She's the one spreading her legs and getting devoured. I'm not empowering her by catering to her whims- she's serving her most intimate places up to me like she was a piece of meat. In this capacity she has all the dignity of a roasted pig on a silver platter, ready for consumption, with an apple jammed into its mouth. Which is to say, no dignity at all.

- FS

yes.. yes.. yes.. my Master takes it from me and makes me squirt all over myself and thoroughly loves it for all of the same reasons You have detailed.. He literally says, "it is like I am taking it from you and I love it" and while i am so shy at the time, the fact that He gets off on taking it from me is so fucking hot.. its unbelievable.. and that is what i think about when He is doing it to me.. that He is drinking down my essence and my surrender makes Him stronger and diminishes my will, make me less of an individual and more of what i am meant to be: His.. His fuck slut.. His cum whore.. His toy.. that is all i want to be.. in every moment of every day, there is only the desire to be used for His u;timate enjoyment, truly.. and i get so wet sucking His cock that i feel selfish.. i love serving Him and if he desires my pussy in His mouth, it is my honor to provide Him with that for His amusement..

[Misschief]

double posted.. sorry..

[subserviant]

Hi denuseri you can use me with a strap on any time you want