breathplay...

[DiablosLittleOne]

I've also very much enjoyed breathplay over the years, more so most recently. I have to say that I'm thrilled to know that I'm not alone in my enjoyment; I was afraid to say anything the first time I realized how much I liked it for fear of being looked down upon.

I do agree that it can be very dangerous if not done in a safe manner. I'd never wish for Master to take me to the brink of passing out for fear of never waking up again, but I trust him enough to know that he'd never allow for that to happen.

I'm interested in what others find so enjoyable about it. I happen to like the pressure upon my neck/throat and the idea that in allowing him to grab me in such a way is a show of my submissiveness to him. I find the release of power very erotic and the example of his strength makes me weak in the knees. Just the thought of it makes me want to run to the bedroom and get ready to play!

[LilJennyLynn]

I'm interested in what others find so enjoyable about it. I happen to like the pressure upon my neck/throat and the idea that in allowing him to grab me in such a way is a show of my submissiveness to him. I find the release of power very erotic and the example of his strength makes me weak in the knees. Just the thought of it makes me want to run to the bedroom and get ready to play!

I agree with this 100%. I find any pressure on my neck one of my biggest turn ons. Even in past Vanilla relationships I always hinted that they should grab my neck. Breathplay for me is literally like saying "take my life in your hands." It takes a lot of trust, but I've never done it to the point of passing out.
It's a total lack of power and one of the most vulnerable locations on my body, it get's me off like you can't imagine.

[~blue~]

As long as you remember the safe word...err...motion, then you should be fine.


I'm not as big a fan of the life endangering kinks, but I do understand their appeal to others. Whiel I agree it is a form of complete submission, and even though most of the D's Ive been with I have trusted without a doubt, sometimes, people can be enjoying themselves too much and can take it to far, or something can go wrong. Hence why I stay away from the dangerous ones.

[shyslut]

Sometimes I think i really do want to play hard with breath play. Right up to the point where i might pass out. Having read that article by jay wiseman we decided it was really too dangerous. I to just enjoy the pressure on my neck. So we compromised. Hell choke me just to the point where I can still freely breathe. But it takes lots of effort and I sound funny. Hell keep me there no more than a couple minutes. But also having read the article Dom changed the way he used his hand to do it so he doesn't press carotids or the vagus nerves only the airway.