Quote Originally Posted by manda View Post
I have given rope monkey my response to HIS question, my opinions on what he stated and asked. I wonder how my relations came under attack. I did not ask for the opinions of others on what I do nor do I care to answer any further questions, because quite frankly it is no one's business. I have found a happy medium for all involved and yes all parties are aware of the other. End of story.
This is a public forum designed for discussion amongst members of what is posted here. You posted. We discussed. *shrugs* Seems reasonable.

I would say it's a stretch to say your relations came under attack as all parties involved in your situation are aware of each other, and no one that responded to you seems to have an issue with that. It's the situations where deception is involved that are being advised against, and all topics thereof do have relevance to the OP. You cleared your post up, we all nodded and went, "oh, okay. We read it differently." No malice in the exchange at all.