Quote Originally Posted by manda View Post
I have given rope monkey my response to HIS question, my opinions on what he stated and asked. I wonder how my relations came under attack. I did not ask for the opinions of others on what I do nor do I care to answer any further questions, because quite frankly it is no one's business. I have found a happy medium for all involved and yes all parties are aware of the other. End of story.
The important point being that all parties are aware. In that case, it's wonderful that you've found a solution that works to fulfill everyone's needs. The only issue that has come under attack is HIDING a relationship from a significant other. I think making it clear that all parties are aware is an important aspect of answering rope monkey's question.

-kitten