Quote Originally Posted by manda View Post
I have given rope monkey my response to HIS question, my opinions on what he stated and asked. I wonder how my relations came under attack. I did not ask for the opinions of others on what I do nor do I care to answer any further questions, because quite frankly it is no one's business. I have found a happy medium for all involved and yes all parties are aware of the other. End of story.
You offered it up in response to the original questioner who was looking for a solution. Since your original post wasn't clear that all parties are aware -- in fact, the impression I got was that they weren't -- then it's natural that those who object to that would question it. I'm sure no one was intending to offend you, but you did respond to a controversial topic -- it's not reasonable to expect that people will ignore your comment.