question about online sub

[orchidsoul]

hmmm had to go out of town WITH family.. for a week or better.. Gee my thought on that is t was a planned things and she should have informed you and was disrespectful not to.. Like you don' matter if you sit and stew.. That is away a Dom may punish but as a sub i would never dare do that to my Master or my Dom...

absolutely disrespectful, but I think it's also disrespectful for a dom to use it as punishment. I think regardless of whom it is (whether d/s or not) it's rather rude.

Online is so tricky to begin with- communication can be inherently limited, and when anyone heads out for more than 2-3 days, it seems appropriate to let them know.

Aside from stewing and questioning the relationship, there can be genuine concern over someone's well being. I know I'd get concerned if I didn't hear from someone near and dear to me for almost two weeks.

I like your idea of an essay. It seems appropriate. Anything else, she's liable to enjoy the punishment, particularly if she's been craving attention, hasn't had play for a couple weeks, etc.

Good luck Frozengrapes! I hope it works out ok whatever your punishment ends up being.

[snowflake]

absolutely disrespectful, but I think it's also disrespectful for a dom to use it as punishment. I think regardless of whom it is (whether d/s or not) it's rather rude.

Online is so tricky to begin with- communication can be inherently limited, and when anyone heads out for more than 2-3 days, it seems appropriate to let them know.

Aside from stewing and questioning the relationship, there can be genuine concern over someone's well being. I know I'd get concerned if I didn't hear from someone near and dear to me for almost two weeks.

I like your idea of an essay. It seems appropriate. Anything else, she's liable to enjoy the punishment, particularly if she's been craving attention, hasn't had play for a couple weeks, etc.

Good luck Frozengrapes! I hope it works out ok whatever your punishment ends up being.

And i agree with you .. even with a Dom i didn't say it was right i just said i could see one do it...

As for stewing .. i meant what you said worried something is wrong..

Glad we both see it that way hun

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snow