Limits?

[cadence]

I have always wondered about the dress codes (restrictions) that are placed on submissives.
I am basically talking about the sexy clothing that gets worn out in public.

I am all for short skirts, and cleavage. I only wear skirts, rarely am I seen in pants (no dress code is imposed upon me). I prefer skirts above the knee, and sometimes a bit of cleavage, and I can wear those things at work without looking out of the ordinary. I keep my clothing conservative to a degree.
I am not bashing Dom's but I wonder how far they do go when choosing an outfit.

There is a difference with older women and what they can and cannot wear.
I have seen many women my age and older wearing clothing that need to be seriously given back to the twenty year olds. I just find that tacky.

So I wonder, do the Dominants pick out clothing that is sexy yet still fashionable for the submissive, or do they go for the tarty look.

I for one would seriously negotiate my clothing, there is a limit there for me. Even going out to a bar would warrant clothing that I would have to feel comfortable with.
I want to be the submissive that is attractive, appealling, sexy, and fashionable too.

[gemmy]

I have always wondered about the dress codes (restrictions) that are placed on submissives.
I am basically talking about the sexy clothing that gets worn out in public.

I am all for short skirts, and cleavage. I only wear skirts, rarely am I seen in pants (no dress code is imposed upon me). I prefer skirts above the knee, and sometimes a bit of cleavage, and I can wear those things at work without looking out of the ordinary. I keep my clothing conservative to a degree.
I am not bashing Dom's but I wonder how far they do go when choosing an outfit.

There is a difference with older women and what they can and cannot wear.
I have seen many women my age and older wearing clothing that need to be seriously given back to the twenty year olds. I just find that tacky.

So I wonder, do the Dominants pick out clothing that is sexy yet still fashionable for the submissive, or do they go for the tarty look.

I for one would seriously negotiate my clothing, there is a limit there for me. Even going out to a bar would warrant clothing that I would have to feel comfortable with.
I want to be the submissive that is attractive, appealling, sexy, and fashionable too.

Nicely said cadence - there sometimes is more to be said with an alluring sexy class than crass

[cadence]

To answer the original question since I snuck in my own.

I don't mind being micromanaged at all. You could probably set up my whole day for cleaning, cooking, and all the other menial tasks that we do at home.

I would need to have a job, unless I met someone who could afford to let me stay at home.
I need at least two to three hours to practice and study a day, and that is non-negotiable.

Anything non-sexual would have to be thoroughly discussed first.
I don't want to shave my head, nor have peircings.

Anything else is up for grabs.

[jeanne]

I had to think about this for a while.

Everyday limits?
-Won't stop coloring my hair. And would NEVER shave my head voluntarily.
-Wouldn't like having my clothes picked out for me day after day after day. Once in a while is hot, though.
-Would not quit my job. I love it and love the money I make.
-Could not give up time to myself. It's my most valuable commodity, and I don't have enough of it in my vanilla life.
-Piercings? No.
-Tattoos? Probably not.
-Collar? Yes.

In thinking about this over the past few days, I've come to the conclusion that I'm definitely not suited to a 24/7 M/s relationship. At least not by the harsh "no rights, no limits" definition, which for many is the "gold standard". That level of dependence is not for me. That being said, I'm fortunate that He gives me the opportunity to live 24/7 D/s with Him for a week at a time every few months, in a manner that works for both of us. Each time I learn a little bit more about how to please Him...each time I spend a little longer at His feet...each time I surrender a little bit more of myself. And it's perfect for me. He's perfect for me.

[jeanne]

One other thing...

For many, a 24/7 M/s relationship is a source of great joy and comfort. I didn't want to leave the impression that I look upon that with disdain...and perhaps if life were different and that were a possibility for us, I'd be more open to it. But for now, it's not in my realm of reality or possibility...so not for me.