True, I was not part of the prior convo in the chat room.

The difference between this and the other thread you referred to delia, was this one asked for suggestions to take to her Master and the other one, he was sent to ask for what the "punishment must be" i.e., given by us online.

A subtle but significant differentiator in my mind.

I guess it has a lot to do with what's on your mind when you read a post like this. I didn't hesitate offering something here, nor was I motivated in the slightest to offer anything there.