why is the bdsm scene so narrow??

[lucyboy]

Hello Dragon's muse. What you seem to be saying is I can't have an opinion. It's ok for Dommes to be as opinionated as they choose and demand what they want.

Well all I'm doing is claiming that right for myself, so shoot me.

As a writer you should know it's impossible to really know if another writer is upset or just calmly stating an opinion.

I can assure you I'm not upset but you seem to be by my opinions and I find usually when people get upset with me airing my views it is because I'm a sub guy.

If I was a Domme saying I deserve better and certain male sub behavior is wrong, I probably wouldn't be coming in for the flak you are aiming at me now.

I don't think you're a bitch. I think you are being unfair but not a bitch.

PS:I have already stated if the no sex caveat is mutual thats fine. It's the sheer volume of Dommes who use subs as gift buying domestics in the full knowledge that the sub wants more. That is what I'm criticising. This kind of exploitation derives it's power from the ''no sex'' rule. And I think it is a sad state of affairs..

[Dragon's muse]

Hello Dragon's muse. What you seem to be saying is I can't have an opinion. It's ok for Dommes to be as opinionated as they choose and demand what they want.

i never said that you could not have an opinion. Only that you really should not attempt to generalize and project YOUR opinion to others. Or judge others and their relationships by standards that you set for yourself.

Well all I'm doing is claiming that right for myself, so shoot me.

As a writer you should know it's impossible to really know if another writer is upset or just calmly stating an opinion.

I can assure you I'm not upset but you seem to be by my opinions and I find usually when people get upset with me airing my views it is because I'm a sub guy.

Actually, if i were upset, i can assure that there would be no "seem to be" about it.

If I was a Domme saying I deserve better and certain male sub behavior is wrong, I probably wouldn't be coming in for the flak you are aiming at me now.

I don't think you're a bitch. I think you are being unfair but not a bitch.

PS:I have already stated if the no sex caveat is mutual thats fine. It's the sheer volume of Dommes who use subs as gift buying domestics in the full knowledge that the sub wants more. That is what I'm criticising. This kind of exploitation derives it's power from the ''no sex'' rule. And I think it is a sad state of affairs..

As i have already said, no one puts a gun to these sub's heads and makes them go into and stay in a relationship that is not right for them. Perhaps, you should take up your issue with them.

Namaste,
rose