lucyboy, NatalieD is trying to be helpful for you. She is just approaching things from a different perspective. She initially wanted you to realize something about the rest of the male subs and thus why the Dommes around you may have such a slanted view on their male subs. Then when you listed how you are a good guy, it took the air of "nice guy" rant because you were showing you were a nice guy thus it isn't your fault that you cannot get a Domme.

NatalieD was trying to point out how she is viewing how your presention of yourself. Regardless of if you are using "blanket generalizations", have "the same sense of entitlement, and the same indignant self-pity that characterize those 'nice guys,'" it may be helpful to consider why she (and perhaps otehrs) view you in this way.

The things we hate to see about ourselves are negative, but if we don't know about them we cannot strive to fix them and become a better person.

Like nk_lion, I do not think NatalieD was trying to insult you although it is hard to not be offended when someone points out possible negatives (be it personality, in writing, art, etc.).