lucyboy,

First off, let me say that just because your local community is narrow does not mean that everyone is narrow. My time in the "lifestyle" has taught me that there is something for everyone, but a lot of people give up because they cannot find it. I know there are young women who are in shape that would like to meet someone like you. There are a few here. They want a physical struggle, and they want to win that struggle. They do want to dominate through force, just like some men like to dominate through force. This thread raised some interesting points, and I will let some people know about it, and you. Perhaps something will come of it. But do not give up just because it does not happen quickly, relationships take time. If you want a relationship, be prepared to invest it.