Quote Originally Posted by lucyboy View Post
I just wonder why this rule only applies to us male submissives?
Because there are a lot of bad apples in that barrel. Guys who want to be spanked or humiliated a bit but want to be in control of both the sex and the relationship. Guys who think dominant women are sexy but don't respect them as people. That sort of thing. Unfortunately the deck is stacked against you from the start because of them, and it's hard to prove you're not one of them except by being deeply submissive in all aspects and not trying to get any sex.

Neither super sexy looks and fabulous clothes or a drive to fuck like a train. Without either asset women lose interest. I'm just speculating. I wonder what you guys think?
I think you don't know very many women. Or maybe you do, but in that case I'm glad I don't know the women you know.

I have been told that it is totally biological that female sexuality is so tightly bound to child rearing that subconsciously women only have sexual partnerships with men who can bring some kind of masculinity and strength to the relationship.
You've been told a lot of crap.

It is funny this is not only something unique to the bdsm scene most bisexual women who have profiles on the net start by saying ''NO MEN"
Same bad-apple problem. So many men read "bisexual" as "will have threesomes and put on shows for me" that a lot of women just don't want to bother trying to find one who doesn't.