I'm shy at first but once I get to know someone I'm more so outspoken. I'm reliable, responsible, independent, caring, loving and complicated all rolled into a complete package. I've been submissive/switch for years I'm not really a regular participant as of the last four years and even then I was barely beginning to find myself. I am submissive but can be more of a dominate at times when and if I have to but I prefer keeping shelter in the submissive side. Knowing that I'm pleaseing someone else is the best for me anyway just here to mingle some.