First off, I'm a raving psychopath. Not really but hey, who's gonna put "I'm an ax murdering serial killer" in their profile? Besides, I try not to rave and be psychotic at the same time. I really find them to be at cross purposes.
Really I'm a former law enforcement officer and am now back in school full time studying culinary arts, I practice western martial arts, read and am crazy extroverted. I'm looking for a lovingly Dominant Woman who is interested in men like me.
The most important part, for me, is the connection, the release of control and the pleasing another. The best thing in the world is a soft touch and hearing "Good boy" from the one I'm serving. If we're properly connected I can get weak kneed and float just from that.
My turn ons include walks in the park, talking over drinks on the couch and being lovingly and relentlessly anally violated.
I am also a great fan of the clothed female, naked male concept; it's just such a lovely visual representation of the power balance. I also enjoy the idea that you like seeing me naked, so that's a huge turn on as well.
I crossdress because, simply put, I like the clothes and it makes me happy and that is not going to change. Please remember that I am a person, not a stereotype. I do not want to be a woman, it is not my heart's desire to be someone's maid and the term "sissy" in no way describes me. In the words of the great Eddie Izzard, "I am an executive transvestite." I dress for me because I like it but I'm not opposed to being used as a living barbie doll (cause let's face it, it's WAAAY more fun if You like it too) so if there is something pretty You would like me to wear, I would be happy to do that for You once we get to know each other.