kinkyabstract
Registered User

About kinkyabstract

BDSM Role:

submissive

Gender:

male

A Bit About Yourself:

i am a 30 year old male submissive/slave born and raised in Santa Monica, California. i am a traditionally trained fine artist (or i'd like to be, lol) and i mainly create abstract paintings, sculptures, installations, and mixed media art works. i love learning new things about anything really and that's partly why i became an artist. You have the ability to pick any topic or subject matter for your work, so i get to incorporate my thirst for knowledge in my art practice. Which i love, especially since i don't think i could maintain sanity if i had to repeat the same work on a daily basis. My thirst for knowledge is complimented by my hunger for experiencing new and exciting things. i find that i have a love for things considered extreme, dangerous, or simply out of the ordinary. i'm very driven and a bit of a perfectionist, which i suppose can have it's down sides but whatever they may be i pay them no mind. i have a pet peeve for the willfully ignorant, and i can't stand they way ignorance is propagated as an acceptable social standard and used to manipulate society.

I also enjoy many hobbies from art, photo, digital painting, reading, writing, "extreme" sports, eating, cooking, trying exotic foods, traveling, and I'm sure there are a few I left out. Hopefully much more to add in the future.

As far as my kinks are concerned... Well, that list goes on and on. I'm usually willing to try anything until I am quite sure I don't like it. But I dunno, sometimes with the right Dominant Woman making the requests, Her request and desire for the activity is usually enough for me. I'm service oriented and i love to give up my control completely to someone i know and trust. i've played and enjoyed cross dressing, strap-on and anal play, water sports, bondage, corporal punishment, humiliation, degradation, chastity, and lots more!

i suppose as a sub/slave i'm looking for that special Female Dominant Woman that is a lifestyle player. i enjoy a Female Led relationship when it's not abusive and is actually focused on Dominance and submission power exchange. i tend to be more alpha male than not in my vanilla life, so it's very important to have both parties understand the dynamic there. A Dominant Female can take only what i am willing to give, not that a make it difficult in any way. i think it's only exciting when there is power and confidence the submissive is innately established with, so when a Dominant does acquire complete control it is a more satisfying exchange for Her.

However, i am afraid that i currently am not looking to get involved at the moment.

i am always looking to meet players that are in the scene and local to me! i've never actually been to active i the scene or nightlife, but it would be nice to meet some like minded people i could finally call friends. lol.