Is being online 'chatting' whilst in a relationship cheating?

[shayna{L_D}]

I don't think I quoted you in a way that indicated I was offended.

But the next question is... what if the spouse considers this online, platonic friendship, a violation of trust. It happens all the time. Have you therefore cheated?

Im glad i did not offend you, that wasnt my doing at all. I do not think that platonic friends isnt a violation of trust, if it went further then yes it would be. Not take into account i am young, and have been hurt very badly by my other half cheating on me in real time and online. I may have a jaded view right now. When when i grow up a bit and get into a serious relationship where i can trust that person with my life then i would allow him or her to be open sexually. Im just not the type to share, and or to be shared. I want whats mine, and i will keep whats mine, and i will also fight for what is mine.