and those who think they know all but really dont...those who steriotype the lifestyle because they think that is what bdsm is...those who would run a mile if they actually got to see how much bdsm involves and that it isnt all about whips and chains and rope but it goes much much deeper than that.

Is all about the love...the commitment to one another...the paths we take together...the mistakes we make and learn from them...the guidance we take from each other to help us become who we truely are.

A sub/slave should never in their life be made to do something they do not feel comfy with...and if their master does this then he is not true to the lifestyle we all love and cherish so much (he is also abusing his/her soulmate)