A bit of contradiction

[Sir_Russell]

nk_8950 the power exchange is not about can I force her to do something she doesn't want to do. It is about the fact that she trusts me enough to do things just for me. It is a two way exchange, and I think that many people miss this fact, she feels that she is safe and secure with me. She knows that I will move heaven and earth to help her, that is my gift of power to her. Her gift to me is that she trusts me to take her where she wants to go or needs to go.

Yes there are some sick people hiding in the life but then they are hiding in every walk of life. It is also not not my call as to what kink is right or wrong, just what is right for me.

Russell

[gloombunny]

As far as I'm concerned, it's not a contradiction, it's the whole point. I don't want to just submit once and be done with it; I like that I'm choosing submission over and over by remaining in the relationship.

[nk_lion]

Thanks for your post NatalieD and Sir Rusell.

I'm a bit confused in what you're trying to say here.

Yes there are some sick people hiding in the life but then they are hiding in every walk of life. It is also not not my call as to what kink is right or wrong, just what is right for me.

Russell

[DrGeordie]

nk_8950 the power exchange is not about can I force her to do something she doesn't want to do. It is about the fact that she trusts me enough to do things just for me. It is a two way exchange, and I think that many people miss this fact, she feels that she is safe and secure with me. She knows that I will move heaven and earth to help her, that is my gift of power to her. Her gift to me is that she trusts me to take her where she wants to go or needs to go.

Wise words as always Sir_Russell. The idea that someone trusts you and wants to please you so much that they will submit to having their limits challenged just to please you must be just the most amazing feeling. The second part just resonates with me. A good sub gives so much of themselves willingly to their Dom. But to me it's just as important for a sub to know implicitly that when they need something solid to hold on to, their master will be right there beside them.

Also, Dragons Muse

"He doesn't force me to my knees.
He inspires me to go there."

that's just beautiful