Fear

[Desperadosong]

Here's an idea that's merely an extension of something that some dom/mes do anyway... and will ensure you haven't lost control of your reactions.

"One. Thank you Sir, May I have another."

If you have to say it to get it, then you won't experience the fear that will trigger the reaction.


...and I'm willing to prove it. weg*

Well, I'd sign up for the provin... but I have a feeling that was directed to Aviry.
Oz Sir... I think she said her "freezes" aren't lifestyle related... or did I miss something? So I may just hafta take her share of the "One. Thank you Sir... can I please have another?" lol

Ds

[Avely]

Oz Sir... I think she said her "freezes" aren't lifestyle related... or did I miss something?

So far my reactions have not been lifestyle related, but it is possible (and the more I think about it, very probable) that when I begin to explore the lifestyle on more than a purely informative basis, I will stumble across triggers.

...and I'm willing to prove it. weg*

So I may just hafta take her share of the "One. Thank you Sir... can I please have another?" lol

Ozme52, you are kind, but Ds may have to fill in for me until I am ready to explore on such an active level. Perhaps a raincheck?

Avely

[Ozme52]

Perhaps a raincheck?

Avely

Perhaps? Consider it a guarantee.

[Ozme52]

Well, I'd sign up for the provin... but I have a feeling that was directed to Aviry.
Oz Sir... I think she said her "freezes" aren't lifestyle related... or did I miss something? So I may just hafta take her share of the "One. Thank you Sir... can I please have another?" lol

Ds

You're correct... but she also said she was avoiding lifestyle scenes because she's concerned about the 'freeze' reaction... so my suggestions are for ways to explore lifestyle that will help her through and past that concern.

D-song, What's your travel schedule like?