Hello and welcome to the Library!

Isn't it so exciting when you first begin letting this part of you out a bit? I'm happy for you that you've found someone to explore with and that you've already established trust and good communication. That's very much a key to making it all work. As for the bratty side, so long as you're both happy it doesn't really matter what anyone else might think.

You might want to check out the weekly discussion group http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/fo...Site-Offerings
I've only attended a couple of times, but they seem to be a great resource for learning. Each week's topic is announced in advance which helps make it easy to plan.

Drop by the Fun & Games area if you're looking for a low stress way to meet friendly folks.

I hope you enjoy your time here.