Quote Originally Posted by singletaillover View Post
for me if i get punished from Master, Master would use the toys that i dont like, like the hard flogger, canes, or would put me into the naughty corner with both hands behind my back with just my forehead and nose touching the wall and would ignore me for at least 10 minutes in which it feels like a lot more than 10 minutes as i hate being ignored its the worse punishment for me
That's the key thing, finding what a particular sub feels as punishment. My ex-slave's appetite for whippings was limited only by what she could physically take, but she hated OTK spanking, something about the childish associations hit her where she lived. So I kept that for when I wanted her to know right deep down that Master was displeased.