What is a SAM?

What are some things you truly detest or find difficult to endure for very long?

I prefer to be clear when it comes to "funishments" and "punishments" myself though I have often seen the two combined, though usually in the case of a funishment, the instigating infraction is a voluntary almost flirtatious exchange between the two parties and often completely made up, or for something minor.

Are you deliberately provoking him into a response so you can be spanked? If that's undesirable behavior then it can be corrected.

Some spankings can be pleasurable at one level and a real pain in the ass at others...so it may be a simple matter of changing things up, using a cane, or tieing you in an uncomfortable position etc. Tabasco sauce held in the mouth or up one's butt-hole during said spanking may or may not do the trick.