Please don’t take offense, I am sure others will give you more useful, practical advice than what I am about to say. I want to chime in and say I do not like that your Dom treats you in this manner. Not one bit. Were I you, I think our next play date would be spent TALKING (and only!) until he understood. By “until” I mean that on the next play date, play could resume if he seemed to really understand. I would also only give him that one more play as a last chance, and forewarn him of that fact as well. Tell him point-blank that you are not handling your emotional state well when he leaves you alone so abruptly after your sessions. I do hope you catch his full attention. If not, please do not stay with one who disregards your feelings.