Bahahahaha... there are people in chat who demand obeisance from all subs? Man, I need to get into chat. As I've explained in the past, "I submit, but I'm not yours to command." This may or may not have been followed by a rather colorful explanation of just how hard and with what instruments said "dom/me" can use to go f-... er, I mean, I would never use such colorful language. I have a halo to maintain.

I extend respect as I see it doled out, but I am an actual person. I'll be damned if I'm going to hand out my submission willy-nilly, because my submission isn't cheap. If that makes me a domme in disguise, so be it.

Seriously, kisa, the best thing you can do in this situation is to realize how pathetic it is. A real dominant treats people (especially strangers!) like people. They don't need a chatroom to feel fulfilled and/or powerful. Anyone who suggests that you are not what you know yourself to be isn't worth the time it takes to type a contradiction. It's an awesome way to identify people to avoid, though.